A reminder for the lonely:

You are not failing to find the right people.

You are not missing a magic ingredient that will make you acceptable or appealing.

You are not giving up too easily, or refusing to try hard enough.

Our isolation and alienation is not our fault.

This situation is not our failure, it is oppression's success. Being separated and disconnected from each other is intentional.

Our foe, kyriarchy, has a name, and it can be defeated. But first we must accept our actual roles in overcoming it.